What is a pragmatic realist?

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  • What does it mean to be a pragmatic realist?

  • Meaning I do which produces the best results

    • I do what makes me happy
  • This gives me the flexibility to not be attached.

    • I don’t have to stick to one thing
  • I have values and principles

    • But I’m willing to let go of something if I can feel that it doesn’t really make me happy
  • Being able to give a bit here and there

    • it’s not a never surrender program
  • and it’s to make me happy.

    • not to change the world naman
  • This is the idea with sobriety too
  • Where I’m not attached to any one thing
  • I’m only willing to do what works
  • If this is true, you must try different things

    • The only way this will work. Is if you’re willing to try new things.
    • Because you’ll otherwise be stuck in a rut.
  • It’s like when I was banging my head against a religious way of thinking.

    • And that didn’t work
  • So the ability to let go of an overly religious perspective

    • and to admit that it wasn’t helping my sobriety, really was a big step

Pragmatic Idealist? or Pragmatic Realist?

  • Pragmatic idealist is more interesting

    • because this is a bit of a counter intuitive
    • or it cancelled each other out
  • Pragmatic Idealism naman is

    • coined by John Dewey
    • and adopted by mahatma ghandi
    • Thus it must be what Martin Luther King Jr. practiced
  • it’s a bit like utilitarianism

  • You have to be willing to compromise somewhat

  • you can’t be so rigid

  • But you still have ideals?

  • (I admit I’m probably not getting this 100% right.)

  • But still it’s a nice little paradox to play around with.

  • and that’s a fun thing to explore

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