Where to allocate your energy
This can be related to that graph the double dip graph from the Perel video with Anne-Laure Le Cunff
You can choose where you want to be
Embrace the suck for some people to get to the second bump
But it’s okay to be in the first too
If you’re a top performer, get into that second peak but if you have other things in your life going on stay in that first peak